Have you ever had a conversation with someone and immediately realized the person was attempting to bait you into an argument?? They asked, you answered, but then 3 questions later, you asked yourself... hmmm... what is this really about?? You eventually realized... Ohhh .... This person is attempting to get me to debate or argue with them, but... for what purpose?? Believe it or not, some people enjoy getting you “all riled up”! 😡 They thrive on “one-upping” you or creating negative tension. This often happens in the workplace but also during family gatherings and events. This is a telltale sign of 2 qualities or character traits: 1) Arrogance and 2) Insecurity. Arrogance, as in “My opinion is the only one that matters.” Insecurity, “I must make you believe you could not possibly know anything on this issue so that I appear smarter, wiser, & superior to you”. Dear One, recognize the signs of this “peace stealer” and do not fall into his/her trap. While there is absolutely nothing wrong with stating your opinion or offering facts, recognize that some conversations are designed to steal your peace and joy. I, too, have fallen for this a time or two. However, moving forward, I have purposed to recognize the signs and avoid these pitfalls. Here are three things to keep in mind: 1) Learn from past encounters. An individual who has approached you previously with illogical conversations or in an argumentative manner does not deserve an extended audience with you! 2) Shut down conversations that appear to pit you against others. 3) When conversations turn argumentative without solutions or resolutions, change the subject & if necessary, make your exit!!! Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. I refuse to give away my peace & my joy. You can, too!💕🌹 ~DPB
